han dan ye 寒單爺
by 伊凌 yi ling
photo credit: Dan Paiero
a day when a dude gets abuse heaped on him and praised for his spiritual surrender.
what land, women, girls and tender ones survive daily with less revelers, firecrackers and music.
yet the aunties say, “oh no, han dan ye is never a girl, they could never be so brave!”